"Truth of Life"

Today's title sounds interesting. There're so many truth of life in our day to day. 

Some can be with school, work, people, family, friends or even love.

And all of these that we go through, we learnt something new along the way.

Some make us wiser. 

I am thankful for those tough times that happened, it made me wiser than before. & to learn the saying that "dont judge things as how it looks" and everything has a deeper indepth meaning behind. 

Certain reasons results in certain actions.

I am thankful i am currently employed with a decent pay. And working alongside with colleagues who are genuiely true and helpful for some. I am glad they spice up the work life more than ever. However, I come to realize how scary it gets when your actions and words has a subsequent impact and make people judge u.

In turn, they become comments and passed on and just like this, u're marked for something. 

I have to say, I dont feel good hearing it however I knw where my colleague is coming from. Aft lots of self thoughts and grumpy-times, I come to realise this has indeed been a small issue. Be glad that I was able to rectify fast before it escalates worse. 

However, it has taught me to be cautious more than ever. Cause u dont get to meet people who are true always. 

At the same time, I am learning to "forgive & forget". An easy saying but takes you real efforts to achieve it. To put down all hatred and grudges to forgive someone who has hurt u, aint easy at all. However, I guess I hv been taking baby steps in this aspect and doing fine. I told myself never to hate cause I'd end up being more miserable & tired. Instead, choose to forget. Forgive is hard. Cause we get reminded of certain things, words and actions people does & relates us back to th past. I dont blame anyone nor anything for all that happened cause it somehow brought a good cause. 

I am happier than before, indeed. 

& I will continue living this life as how I want it to be

With love,

Rach